Friends, you are amazing. Simply amazing. Asha and I are so grateful to everyone who participated in our #HelpWomenAtRisk fundraiser for Ethiopian women. Every book purchased, every blog post and social media update, every moment of attention helped us honor a journey that began in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, shortly after we turned in the manuscript for Minimalist Parenting.
Today, Katy shares 7 tips for coping with nighttime fears:
We're a little sensitive around the dark and night time at my house, and I've been looking for ways to deal with bedtime and late night anxiety. With all of our many sleep travails, we have a veritable library of advice books on sleep in general, including numerous chapters on fear of the dark and going to sleep when nighttime is scary; our own pediatrician has weighed in as well. Here's what we've taken away (and ignored!) from the legions on this topic:
Today, contributing writer Carole Arsenault (of Boston Baby Nurse) shares about the benefits of skin-to-skin contact.
You may have heard of the fourth trimester. It's the idea that the first 3 months of life are very much an extension of life in the womb for the baby. While you are adjusting both mentally and physically from pregnancy and birth, your baby is transitioning to life outside of the womb.
Today, Judy (also of Talking Thirty) shares ideas for managing screen time for kids:
Lately, I've been thinking a lot about how to effectively limit screen time for my toddler. We managed to keep his life screen-free for his first 12 months, but as he gets older, it's becoming increasingly difficult, especially now that he's more verbal about his wishes, strong-willed, and adept at manipulating electronic devices on his own (I'm not sure whether to be proud or embarrassed that he's mastered the Apple swipe!).
In honor of Improve Your Office Day tomorrow (who knew?), today, Paige (also of Mudroom Boston) shares four easy ways to upgrade your office:
Have you ever had a moment when you look up from your dusty computer after a long day, turn off your company-issued brass lamp, glance at the framed snapshots that you haven't changed since your first child was born nine years ago, grab a leaky pen from your "Team Building 1999" mug to write a quick note, and think "how did my office get like this?" Yeah, me too.
I haven't been in a rush to potty train Violet, partly because my brain has been consumed by other things and partly because in some ways, diapers are sooo easy. But once Vi started insisting on wearing Laurel's underpants over her diapers I figured, OK, it's time. And it's been shockingly easy. Like, basically done in a weekend! For those of you thinking about or ready to take the plunge, I wanted to share 8 tips for less stress, less mess potty training:
Friends, it's hard for me to believe that at this time a year ago I was preparing to travel to Ethiopia with ONE Moms. The journey impacted me in so many ways and today I want to announce a very special fundraiser that Asha and I have coordinated to benefit Women At Risk, an organization that helps Ethiopian women lift themselves out of prostitution by providing them with practical support, job training, and viable employment. (We met women who have benefited from this program during our site visit to the amazing fashionABLE...see photos below.)
Today, Debbie (also of Two Adopt Two) shares tips for coping with movie-related stress and bad behavior:
Have you taken your kids to a summer blockbuster and later wished you hadn't? Welcome to the club. Movies are a fun treat, but they can cause stress--even those rated G and PG. I don't know about you, but I cringe when my kids see bad behavior on screen and cringe even more when they start acting out the bad behavior at home. Here are methods we've developed for coping with the aftermath of an otherwise fun family movie experience:
Last week when I was writing about birthday intentions for this website, it was interesting to go back and read about my eight intentions for 2013. And given that we're halfway through the year, I thought it would be good to check in, both to see what progress I've made and where I need to keep working. Do you do regular check-ins on your goals? I'd love to hear about what you're working on this year. (Feel free to share in the comments below or on Facebook or Twitter.)
Today, Judy (also of Talking Thirty) shares ideas for fun activities grandparents and kids can enjoy together:
Many of us have plans to bring our kids to visit their grandparents sometime during the summer. Sometimes it can be challenging to bridge the generation gap and figure out what to do together, particularly if the two generations haven't had much face time, whether due to distance or other factors. Here are 10 activities to help break the ice and help grandparents and kids enjoy quality time together and develop strong intergenerational bonds.
Today, Debbie (also of Two Adopt Two) shares tips for helping kids with the sadness of saying goodbye to a beloved teacher (also see this post on coping with end of year transitions):
Do you remember your favorite teachers from when you were a kid? Were you sad to leave them at the end of the school year? The close of school is a bittersweet time because of goodbyes, but it's especially hard for kids to leave teachers they've grown to love. Here are techniques my family has developed to help our kids take those first steps out of the classroom and into summer even if they're feeling sad.
Friends, I have super fun news. Today Asha and I will be on NPR's Tell Me More with Michel Martin to talk about summer and scheduling (or overscheduling). This has certainly been a topic that's been top of mind for me personally, given that I work full time, need to lock in some summer scheduling, and have a kid who prefers a lot of downtime! Broadcast times vary depending on where you live, so check the Tell Me More site for your station details. I hope you'll tune in!
Despite what the Wall Street Journal might think (or rather, portray for the sake of a traffic spike), mommy blogger conferences like Mom 2.0 are not about sleeping in and draining the minibar. In fact, I slept very little and I'm not even sure whether our room had a minibar. Why? Because instead of sleeping and/or draining the minibar, I spent my time soaking in the incredibly talented and brilliant people who attended this conference. I left with a notebook full of professional (yes, Wall Street Journal, professional) ideas, and five life lessons I wanted to share with all of you; they're relevant for everyone.
Tomorrow I head to Laguna Niguel for Mom 2.0 Summit and I'm excited for many reasons. First, it's always so powerful and energizing to connect in person with the blogging community. Second, this will be the first time I've seen Asha since Minimalist Parenting launched (no need to tote my Flat Asha cardboard cut out!). And third, Asha and I are leading a session called "Minimalize" Your Workflow: Practical Steps for Enjoying Your Blogging More By Doing Less and also doing a book signing for Minimalist Parenting at the conference. Yay!
Today, Judy (also of Talking Thirty) shares 12 great gift ideas for new moms:
These days it seems that baby announcements from friends roll in about one per week and I spend my weekends cuddling squishy newborn after squishy newborn (no complaints here!). I've realized that often we focus on gifts for the new baby and sometimes forget the person who has been through the most -- the new mama! Here are my favorite gift ideas for new moms.