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August 31, 2007

Weekly Web Roundup

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And now for our weekly dose of web highlights from some of our stylish blog partners:

Cool Finds: Healthy Bump features The Nursing Bracelet from Go Baby (shown), a pretty bracelet to help mom keep track of the time she last nursed and on which breast. Classy Mommy loves Snap Totes, a functional and special photo bag that comes in a variety of clutch, purse, or bag sizes, including diaper bags. One Chic Mama also has kudos for the cute knit hats from Maggie’s Rose (see our review).

Good to Know: Clever Parents offers information to calm the jitters about putting your child on the school bus. Moms’ Buzz offers their August edition of monthly savings, coupons, and deals. And MomFinds also is featuring exclusive coupons and deals so you can skip the mall and score deals of up to 70% off from the comfort of your keyboard.

Garden Delights

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Here’s a terrific nature outing to consider this long weekend, submitted to us by one of our readers: “We just went to Elm Bank at the Massachusetts Horticultural Society in Wellesley, and it was a great adventure on a nice day! It is absolutely beautiful there, being outside and running around the children's gardens…they have great programs for kids year round.”

The Center is open daily from 8am to dusk and is free to members (non-members are encouraged to make a donation). Elm Bank includes Weezie’s Garden for Children, an array of smaller gardens, each with its own theme and means of engaging the senses with the garden’s elements. The grounds and gardens of Elm Bank are handicapped accessible.

Massachusetts Horticultural Society, 900 Washington Street (Rt.16), Wellesley; Tel: 617-933-4900

Birthday Contest: Mostess Creations

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You can never, ever have enough bibs and burp cloths, and for today’s birthday contest, one lucky winner (US & Canada entrants eligible) will receive a fabulously patterned bib and burp cloth set from Mostess Creations. The winner will specify whether the gift is for a boy or girl, and Mostess Creations will select the fabric. To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Fri., Aug. 31) the answer to the following question: In addition to bibs and burp cloths, what’s another type of product that Mostess Creations carries?

August 30, 2007

Just Say No

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Truly, I'm not prone to histrionics, so take me at my word when I say that yesterday made me feel as if I was a priority to no one. Part of the problem is the overstretched, overwhelmed state that seems like the modern motherhood status quo; the other (related) part involves my rampant yes tendencies, even in the face of absurd requests. Read on to find out how I unraveled (and then, lest you think this is pure rant, I’ll provide a resource to consider if you feel similarly overwhelmed, overbooked, and overlooked):

I feel grateful every day for having left my academic career in favor of happier, independent pastures, but negotiating several professional ventures (while not engaging full-time child care) leaves me quantitatively short on work hours pretty much constantly. To make matters worse, this week, I lost one of Laurel's few child care covered days because her school is closed. Then I found out that Jon has Monday off for the holiday (elation!), but that he was planning on using that day to prepare for his new professional shift next week (deflation! ... I feigned supportiveness since rationally, I understood the decision and need). Then yesterday, my mom called and – in a matter of minutes – asked me if I was busy (my response could not have been more clear), canceled out on her Laurel time this week (today; it's nap time right now...), then informed me that a series of PDFs would be landing in my inbox in minutes, and that she needed me to print them for her to pick up (she instructed someone to email them to me since she didn't know what PDFs were or how to open them). My work hours were fast evaporating, I felt double blindsided by my mom, and on top of all of this, a growing mountain of necessary, time sucking and time sensitive household errands loomed; all for which I had assumed sole responsibility. I was angry and sad and in tears all day. Somehow I was managing to say yes to everything and everyone except myself.

Ironically enough, I’ve been meaning to post a contribution this week from Dr. Susan Newman about HOW TO SAY NO. Dr. Newman wrote in after getting word of our post on her Parenting an Only Child book. Newman also is the author of The Book of No, a book that I clearly need to go order, stat. In the meantime, she shares some basics stepping stones to flexing your NO muscles (click here for a PDF of her article). Dr. Newman also kindly is offering a free copy of her book to a lucky reader; just subscribe to our newsletter by tomorrow, Aug. 31, for details on how to win. If you live in anything remotely like my yes reality, you will need it, or end up in the sorry state that was my yesterday.

I'm feeling somewhat better today, as Auntie Sha-Sha is coming to hang with Laurel tomorrow morning and Jon finally managed to pull all of the details of my overwhelmedness out of me. He had no idea I had assumed all of the looming household needs, and is helping to take care of those, and he is committed to helping me find some hours to myself this weekend. These are wonderful and dearly appreciated patches for the present, but now I need to figure out the NO component so that next time, I don't get my knickers in such a twist in the first place.

Weekend Walnut Cake

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For baking enthusiasts, leisurely long weekends no doubt represent a call for treats; this weekend, consider trying out Jules's original Walnut Cake recipe (click photo thumbnail to enlarge). For the reduced fat version, just bake the cake; to up the sweet ante, add the chocolate ganache and sweetened walnuts topping:

"I created this walnut cake when I was trying to come up with reduced fat recipes for a local chef. The only fat in the cake is the walnuts, and, from a nutritional perspective, the healthy fats from the walnuts and the protein from the egg whites should encourage you to have another slice! Ironically (but not surprisingly), this cake tastes best drizzled with gooey dark chocolate ganache and sprinkled with sweetened, buttered walnuts. If you must, omit the chocolate and eat the light and airy cake on it’s own with tea or coffee.

Sweetened Walnuts:

  • 1 cup walnuts
  • 4 tbsp butter, melted
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • 1/3 cup brown sugar
  • Black pepper, to taste (optional)

    Walnut cake:

  • 2 cups chopped walnuts, toasted lightly
  • 1 3/4 cups confectioners’ sugar
  • ¾ whole wheat flour
  • ½ cup all purpose flour
  • ½ teaspoon salt
  • 9 egg whites
  • 1 ½ tsp pure vanilla extract
  • ¾ cup dark brown sugar, packed tightly

    Ganache:

  • 8 oz, chopped chocolate, at least 60%
  • ¼- ½ cup heavy cream

    Prepare walnuts for topping:
    Preheat oven to 250˚F. In large bowl, mix walnuts with butter, salt and sugar. Toss well. Taste for seasoning - you may prefer more sugar or more salt. A few grinds of black pepper add for a nice dynamic, though optional. Toast walnuts for about 45 minutes, tossing every 15 minutes to ensure even toasting and coloring. Set aside to cool.

    Make walnut cake:
    Preheat oven to 350˚F. Butter and flour 9” cake pan. In food processor, combine walnuts and confectioners’ sugar. Process until walnuts are finely ground. Add flours and salt and pulse processor just a few times, to ensure that the mixture is well combined. Set aside.
    Meanwhile, in electric mixer with whisk attachment, whip egg whites and vanilla until frothy. Once frothy, with mixer on high speed, slowly add brown sugar, about a tablespoon at a time. Whip until glossy and stiff peaks form. Remove mixing bowl from stand and with a large spatula, gently fold in flour mixture, about ½ cup at a time, being sure to fully incorporate but not over mix. Bake for about 25 minutes, or until cake tester inserted into cake comes out clean. Cool completely on rack.

    Make ganache:
    Chop chocolate into uniform pieces and place in medium sized bowl. In small saucepan over medium heat, heat cream until scalded, but not boiling. As soon as small bubbles begin to form around edges of saucepan, remove and pour over chocolate chunks. Allow to sit for one minute. This is the trick to any smooth and glossy ganache. With small whisk, stir chocolate and cream together until smooth.

    Assemble cake:
    Remove cake from pan and place on rack with parchment paper under the rack. Pour warm ganache over top of cake. Chop sweetened walnuts into very small pieces and sprinkle over ganache. Allow to set for one hour in a cool place before serving."

    Click here for the printable PDF of this recipe.

  • Birthday Contest: Moonrock Paper

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    Some storage accessories are so pretty that they inspire order. Moonrock Paper’s products fit that bill, and with tree-free, eco-friendly construction at that. For today’s birthday contest, one lucky winner (US entrants eligible) will receive a ribbon tied storage box from the Moonrock Cosmopolitan Dots collection (photo shows style, but specific product is not shown); the winner may choose either green with pink dots, brown with pink dots, or blue with brown dots. To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Thurs., Aug. 30) the answer to the following question: Name a location where you can buy Moonrock products.

    August 29, 2007

    Oh, Behave!

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    Sometimes, parental epiphanies just can’t be gleaned from textbook knowledge. Today, Tracy shares her realizations about the ever-shifting, ongoing process that is behavior shaping in kids:

    “You’d think that, as a psychologist, I’d be able to use my skills as a therapist to assist my children in learning right from wrong, what is appropriate, what is not. In a nutshell, how to behave. And, at the very least, you’d think I’d have a firm appreciation for what stage and age they are at, and the “button-pushers” that go along with it. You’d think.

    I fall prey to the anxiety-ridden, faulty thinking that I’m sure other parents have experienced, too. I forget that almost everything is a “phase,” and that the successful negotiation of it (i.e., when the behavior stops happening because they don’t need it anymore) is a necessary part of growing up. In the midst of these lapses of mine, I can – often almost feverishly – try to brainstorm the next great behavior modification trick, which will miraculously (and immediately, I often expect) change my children into “good behavers.”

    Except…I can’t actually find these tricks. I now think that they don’t actually exist. I went through a recent tough period where I really thought that the correct technique, consequence, or amount of consistent follow through was just around the corner. When I found it, I thought, all of the bad listening would miraculously go away. Um, no. I would try this or that technique, which only sometimes worked, and continue to feel frustrated that somehow I was missing the good parenting boat. I read books, looked up websites, hoping to find the next big thing.

    A few recent experiences opened my eyes a bit, though. A visit in a restaurant with friends from out of town is one that sticks in particular. After firmly asking my older son not to open a heavy door in the restaurant because our friends’ daughter was on the other side trying to come in, he stopped, stepped back and patiently waited for her to come through. My friend’s husband stood there blinking and said, “Wow. He listened.” At first, I wasn’t sure what to make of the comment. Was he hinting that he hadn’t expected my child to listen? Or, that his experience with 6 year olds generally is that they don’t listen? Or, was he just impressed that, in the throes of visiting excitement, my son was able to listen?

    A couple of weeks later, we hosted a BBQ. The dads and sons played soccer while we waited on supper. At some point, things were getting rowdy, and in rapid succession our 6 year old had kicked the ball into the middle of the appetizer table on the deck, run into his younger brother (who was not looking where he was going), and tripped and bumped his knee. After soothing boo-boos and bruised egos, the boys returned to playing without the men. A few moments later, the soccer ball was again where it should not be and I (rather sharply) said that soccer was over until after supper. Upset, but obedient, my older son stowed his ball, and came to sit with the adults. My friend said, “Your boys are so well behaved.” For a split second, I just about replied, “My boys?” And then I stopped. Because they were behaving.

    I realized after processing these experiences that I really needed to cut myself some slack. And, I definitely needed to let my expectations for the boys relax a little. I realized that shaping behavior is an ongoing process with an ever-shifting target. Part of behavior modification is to keep in mind where your child(ren) is/are at developmentally and adjust accordingly. We will have good days and not-so-good days, and that is what parenting is. The best I can do is try as well as I can to be patient, tackle behavior shaping as the process it is, and glory in the successes the boys have in the right moments.

    After finishing this post originally, I came across this quote: “Our children are not machines that need to be repaired through a series of mechanical steps – they are relational beings whose souls grow through the mystery of their relationships.” -- Dan Allender

    So, that part about trying to find the perfect “mechanism” by which to change my children into behavers? I’m done with that. I’m going to try to keep in mind the relational aspect of parenting in teaching appropriate behavior. I’ll let you know how it goes.”

    Birthday Contest: Cheeky Monkey Murals

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    There’s no better way to spruce a room than with color, and Cheeky Monkey's lovely murals and painted pieces are sure to transform (see our review). For today’s birthday contest, one lucky local winner will receive a custom painted child’s rocker (example shown) OR a $300 gift certificate to Cheeky Monkey Murals. Entrants must live within the 495 belt to be eligible for this draw. To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Weds., Aug. 29) the answer to the following question: Name one of the many amazing mural jobs in Cheeky Monkey's portfolio (also indicate the town you live in so we can verify correct entry).

    August 28, 2007

    Bloomin' Tots Hats

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    I have not an ounce of Brit in my bones, but boy do I love the look of a plucky, pretty hat. And having a daughter offers plenty of fodder for fun hat finds, the latest being the bloomin’ tots hats by the family run business, Maggie’s Rose.

    Hand crocheted of soft, stretchy cotton and embellished with big blooms, these make-a-back-to-school-statement hats will attract attention wherever you go. Laurel has the chocolate tots hat trimmed with black; the cap is cute and cozy, and the chocolate bloom (with red jeweled center) makes a fun yet dramatic statement. Laurel is crazy about this hat, and when she wore it to school for the first time the other week, she stopped every teacher we saw on our way in saying, “Look at my pretty flower hat!” And in unsolicited situations, the response from strangers has been "Look at that pretty flower hat!" High praise, indeed.

    Maggie’s Rose bloomin’ hats are available in lots of pretty colors suitable for different seasons. Use coupon code mr015 to receive 15% off Maggie’s Rose products at Itsy Bitsy Baby Boutique.

    UPDATE (8/29/07): Mention Boston Mamas and receive 20% off Maggie’s Rose products at Prothesia’s in Dennis, MA.

    Graco Safety Notice

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    One of our readers kindly passed along the following information regarding the Graco ComfortSport 5-point harness convertible car seat: “On some of the Graco ComfortSport car seats manufactured between January 2, 2007 through July 31, 2007, the Lower Anchorage belt was misrouted during the assembly process. No injuries have been reported related to this issue.” Click here for further details from Graco.

    Birthday Contest: Little Capers

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    Little people have big imaginations, and Little Capers's cool, non-commercial superhero tees with detachable capes no doubt will inspire hours of imaginative play (see our review). For today’s birthday contest, one lucky winner (US entrants welcome) will choose a superhero tee/cape from the Little Capers collection. To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Tues., Aug. 28) the answer to the following question: Which Little Capers design best suits your little hero at home (if you have more than one kid, just choose one)?

    August 27, 2007

    A Pod for Your Pea

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    We are long overdue in upgrading Laurel’s travel bedding (the poor girl still tolerates sleeping on a diagonal in the Pack n’ Play), and this weekend, while roughing it in the woods with friends, I was reminded of a fabulous travel sleeping/play pod for kids.

    Our friends Andrew and Nooshi are huge fans of the PeaPod Plus, which they have used for their son in hotels, at grandma’s house, and in the woods. This travel bed/tent rocks for multiple reasons: it can be used from birth to up to 6 years of age, folds down compactly and weighs just 9 lbs, offers UV Protection, insect netting, and adjustable wind screens to accommodate various outdoor settings, and includes an inflatable mattress, portable hand pump, and sleeping bag. Another benefit that our pals reported is that the tent is especially handy if you are traveling and only have one room; because the tent blocks light you can at least have a dim light on so you don't have to sit in the dark when your kid goes to bed at 8pm. Andrew and Nooshi's son loves having his own little sleeping nook when the family hits the road.

    I still think the Pack n’ Play is a great piece of gear for little ones who need a firmly enclosed space for sleeping or play at home or on the road, but the PeaPod Plus is a terrific find for traveling families. It’s available in red/blue (shown) or princess pink and ships for free from Traveling With Kids.

    Birthday Contest: Barefoot Books

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    You can never have enough great books for kids, so we’re thrilled that today’s birthday contest features our culturally- and eco-minded friends at Barefoot Books (see our review). One lucky winner (US entrants welcome) will receive a fabulous Barefoot Books gift basket including a collection of books and puzzles for 0-5 years ($150 value). To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Mon., Aug. 27) the answer to the following question: Name one of the many award winning titles available at Barefoot Books.

    August 24, 2007

    Weekly Web Finds

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    And now for our weekly dose of web highlights from some of our stylish blog partners:

    Cool Finds: One Chic Mama features a clever Halloween costume and sling in one (shown). Classy Mommy speaks to the wow factor of the luxurious $2500 Kid Kustoms stroller. MomFinds’s back to school guide includes the best backpacks, coolest lunch boxes, and sharpest pencil cases for your kid.

    Good to Know: Healthy Bump has a Q & A with Alice Koskas, owner of The Lounge Spa in Culver City, CA, about pregnancy and skincare to help you get through the rest of the summer. Clever Parents's vidcast features craft kits for kids ages 18 months to 11, tips for hosting a puppy party, and learning to live with things that bite.

    Supplies for Schools

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    I always feel disheartened when I hear about underpaid teachers dipping into their wallets for school supplies, so I hope you’ll consider this lead we learned about this week. Office Depot’s 5% Back to Schools Program allows you to earn credits for free school supplies for your school (public and private, Pre-K - Grade 12) when you purchase qualifying school supplies. Call 1-800-GO-DEPOT to find out your school’s ID # (if your school isn’t in the system you can sign them up to benefit).

    Birthday Contest: Poopasnuffas

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    We love that Poopasnuffas encourages creativity via a collaboration between its cute cast of characters and the children who dream up and submit stories about them (see our review). For today’s birthday contest one lucky winner (worldwide entrants welcome) will receive a baby onesie + matching bib OR a kid's tee (winner chooses character). To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Fri., Aug. 24) the answer to the following question: What is Poopasnuffas’s current submit-a-story theme?

    August 23, 2007

    You've Got Mail

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    Having grown up with little cuddly reading time with my parents (they were busy trying to keep 7 mouths fed), I firmly believe that one of the best things you can do as a parent is snuggle up and read to, with, or alongside your kid(s). And if you’d like to enhance your kid’s reading collection, help them develop early literacy skills, and/or encourage their sense of identity (via receiving their own mail), consider the Tessy & Tab Reading Club, a twice monthly preschooler magazine. Really more a booklet reader (ad-free and printed on sturdy paper that will withstand repeated reads), each issue focuses on a topic (e.g., visiting the dentist), and offers activity pages to encourage letter, number, and object recognition. Other resources are available on the kids website, and via email for parents.

    The folks at Tessy & Tab were kind enough to offer some of my reviewers a trial subscription so we could report to you the experience from a handful of different kids of different ages. Here’s what our reviewers (ordered by child’s age) had to say:

  • Reviewer #1, mama to a 2.5 year old son

    Story Content: “My son really enjoyed the Tessy & Tab stories, I think because they were about experiences he could relate to (birthday parties, making crafts, etc.). He would listen carefully and look at the pictures, sometimes commenting, "just like Noah" or "Noah does that" (e.g., when Tessy & Tab fell asleep in the car at the end of the "At the Carnival" issue, he said, "just like Noah")… I liked that the stories were simple but included good teaching points like cleaning up after craft time or paying attention to height regulations for carnival rides. We had fun reading them together, and he's always eager to read the newest issue.”

    Activity Pages: “He didn't really get into the activity pages though...maybe because of his age? ”

  • Reviewer #2, mama to a 3 year old son

    Story Content: “I’m afraid Tessy and Tab wasn't a hit with my son...maybe he's too young? [I find that for my son to enjoy a story] the content needs to be personally relevant for him to pay attention...trains, farm animals, etc. All in all, it seems like an interesting product, but maybe for kids a bit older.”

    Getting Mail: “My son loves getting mail, but I've realized that the mail needs to be from someone he knows (e.g., a friend’s birthday invite, a postcard from grandma, etc.).”

  • Reviewer #3, mama to a 3.5 year old daughter

    Story Content: “I want to thank you so very much for introducing Elizabeth to Tessy & Tab. It is a truly wonderful publication and Elizabeth adores it! …One of the things that we all love about it, is that Elizabeth makes up stories while "reading" the magazine. She uses the cues that she recognizes both in the illustrations and in the words. But she spends a great deal of time coming up with long and involved and detailed stories about what Tessy & Tab are up to in their adventures. My husband and I were working with Elizabeth on her letters and sounding out words together the other day. We were talking with her about how when she learns to read, she will be able to read her own books all on her own! She responded by telling us that she can already read, because she is a part of the Tessy & Tab Reading Club!”

    Getting Mail: “She is always so incredibly happy when her new copy of Tessy & Tab arrives in the mail. We have had subscriptions to other magazines for her in the past, but nothing has elicited the same type of response. Today I handed her the new Tessy & Tab, and she was just thrilled beyond compare. She loves reading her Tessy & Tab’s in the car. In fact, it is the only reading material that keeps her attention for a long time. She has sat alone in the back seat and "read" Tessy & Tab for up to 30 minutes at a time!”

  • Reviewer #4, mama to 5 year old twin daughters

    Story Content: “The magazines (booklets) are really short. On the one hand the length offers a sense of completion, since a child can read and do all the activities included in a single sitting. It's also great for me, with the two of them, because I can do the booklet with each of them individually, or with them together, in a short period of time. However, if I was just doing the magazine with one child, I wonder if I would feel the $48/yr. subscription price was justified… The stories are okay - not exactly literary masterpieces, but the material is relevant and age-appropriate.”

    Activity Pages: “The suggested activities, which are the same in each issue, are very appropriate. Sami, who is not yet reading, enjoys finding the objects and letters throughout the book. Each issue asks the reader to locate just two words in the story, and Sami feels really proud that she is able to complete that activity. Austin does read a little, and does most of the booklet independently. In this way, I've found that it's easy to tailor our Tessy & Tab time to each of their abilities.

    Getting Mail: “The girls are really enjoying the Tessy & Tab subscription. They love getting the mail and seeing something with their name on it. The other magazines we subscribe to for them are all monthly, but Tessy and Tab's biweekly delivery is frequent enough that instead of forgetting about it in between shipments, they are able to anticipate it instead.

    Web Activities: “The girls have also tried out the Tessy & Tab website, which I am really impressed with. Its activities cover a range of early literacy skills in a fun, engaging way. Additionally, it offers tips for how to use Tessy & Tab with kids of different ages and abilities and suggests general ways to foster an early appreciation of reading.”

    Reviewer #4 and her daughters also tried out the Kindergarten Countdown Toolkit for us:

    “The girls had been receiving their Tessy & Tab subscription for a couple of weeks when the toolkit arrived, so they were very excited to see more Tessy & Tab products. The kit comes with 5 Tessy & Tab magazines, which are actually short booklets (10-12 pp), a DVD, and "The First Day of Kindergarten Checklist"-- a brief set of suggestions to help parents prepare their children for kindergarten. Since the kit does not come with specific directions as to what, if any, order the products should be used, we opted to watch the DVD first. The DVD is less than 20 minutes long, but covers a full range of topics relating to a day at kindergarten. Getting to school; teachers and staff; making new friends; routine activities such as snack time and using the bathroom; and classroom and school activities such as story time, recess, and gym are all shown from a child's perspective, with most of the accompanying commentary coming from the kindergarteners themselves. The tone of the DVD is relaxed and respectful; it shows kids that their questions and concerns are important, but the upbeat music and genuine excitement of the featured kindergarteners convey that kindergarten is a fun place to be, and something to be really excited about. My girls are familiar with the school, classrooms, and staff where they'll be going to kindergarten, so I wondered if they would be confused by seeing this "other" kindergarten, or if the DVD would be less relevant for them. What I found though, was that the DVD focused on the common experiences of children in several different classrooms, and most of the visuals were of children's faces and classroom activities, so school-specific things like what the classroom looked like or who the teacher was faded into the background.

    The accompanying Tessy & Tab booklets were also fun for the girls. Of the five, only "New School" is directly related to the kindergarten experience, but this seems proportionate to me. The other booklets, as well as their website (which is terrific, in my opinion) are more geared toward readiness than preparedness. As you can imagine, much of the process of preparing for kindergarten can't come from a kit, but comes instead from things like visiting the classroom, meeting the teacher, talking about the routines that are specific to your child, etc. The "First Day of Kindergarten Checklist" that comes with the kit covers these things and offers a timeline and some suggestions for how to approach these steps in a developmentally appropriate and fun way.

    For us, the kit is a nice complement to the steps we are taking to prepare the girls for kindergarten. I think it would also work as a great springboard for those who are just starting the process.”

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    We hope these perspectives from our moms and kids are helpful to you! The folks at Tessy & Tab would also like to extend the following offer to our readers: Use code BOS-1Free when you place your order to receive one free issue along with your first regular issue.

  • Birthday Contest: Card Stix

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    Today’s birthday contest is for gift givers who would love to get their greeting down pat (literally), quick and easy. One lucky winner (US & Canada entrants eligible) will receive 24 Card Stix – 4 x 5 inch whimsically designed self-adhesive greeting cards that can be affixed to presents, gift bags, or baskets (winner chooses from the baby, kid, or tween birthday collections). To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Thurs., Aug. 23) the answer to the following question: Who are the Syracuse pals behind Card Stix?

    August 22, 2007

    Breastfeeding Rights Campaign

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    Sadly, if you’ve ever nursed in public, you likely have, at some point, been subject to unsolicited comments, criticism, rubbernecking, or even ejection off the premises. If you have a story to share, MomsRisingPV, the political arm of the Massachusetts-based MotherWoman, has launched a campaign to advocate for the rights of mothers to breastfeed in public.

    The campaign has two parts: 1) MomsRisingPV is collecting stories from mothers who have been made to feel uncomfortable or even been harassed for breastfeeding in a store, restaurant, workplace, or other public place in Massachusetts. 2) MomsRisingPV is urging people to send letters to their Massachusetts state senators in support of Senate Bill 78, An Act Relative to the Public Health Benefits of Breast Feeding. This legislation will be considered this fall and would make breastfeeding in public an action protected under Massachusetts state law.

    For information on how to contact your state senator, and a sample letter that you are welcome to copy and paste, see MotherWoman’s campaign page. If you have questions about the campaign, email MomsRisingPV directly.

    Smart Bargains

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    Mama loves a bargain, and one of our readers recently pointed us to the kids bargain department at SmartBargains.com. Offering brand names at a discount, the site’s kid section is particularly geared toward bedding, décor, and toys (with some clothing available), and also offers home, apparel, and bling bargains for women and men.

    Birthday Contest: MakeReady

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    Ever wish you could have one of those Oprah days where a stylist swoops in and tells you how to make your living room rock? Well, we’re not landing on anyone’s doorstep with a camera crew, but for today’s birthday contest, one lucky local winner will receive a free interior styling consult (includes a furniture and accessories redesign, interior decorating tips, and the down low on how to make the most of your existing furnishings) from MakeReady. This prize is valued at $300-450 and the winner gets to pick which room they would like redesigned. Entrants must reside in Boston or the surrounding T-accessible neighborhoods (e.g., Cambridge, Brookline, Somerville, etc.). To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Weds., Aug. 22) the answer to the following question: Who is the talented interior and product stylist behind MakeReady?

    August 21, 2007

    Get Clean

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    Whether it’s due to planetary or personal health concerns, the introduction of a pure little newborn, or a combination of these factors, I’ve seen a lot of families and friends go green when it comes to food and household products. So on the latter, I’m thinking that the amazing Get Clean Starter Kit is going to be my new go-to housewarming, wedding, baby shower, or I-love-that-you-want-to-save-the-planet-too gift (didn’t I just write today about loving clutter-free, consumable gifts?).

    The Get Clean Starter Kit includes everything you need to get your house spruced in an eco-minded, efficient, and economical manner. The household, dish, and laundry cleaners are formulated using natural, biodegradable ingredients free of chlorine, phosphates, and other planet- and family-unfriendly materials, and the packaging, wipes, and dryer sheets are recyclable. The cleaning system is particularly efficient and economical in that the liquid cleaning products are concentrated (you either only need to use a small amount or dilute certain products with water), and in that the products come in larger containers, the contents of which are poured into smaller, refillable dispensers. The system also comes with a cleaning caddy to help you organize and tote all of your cleaning gear easily around the house.

    We’ve been using the Get Clean Starter Kit exclusively for the last couple of weeks and the system is, in fact, fabulous. The products are highly effective, have a nice, mild natural scent, and we are thrilled about the reduction in packaging waste. I have long dreamed about hiring someone to clean my house, but it’s amazing how the stylish orderliness of this system’s carrying caddy actually inspires me to go scrub the bathroom.

    Put Your Blue Jeans On

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    Jeans are a wardrobe workhorse so you deserve ones that fit properly and make you feel fabulous. Today, Kate reports on a terrific North End boutique dedicated to helping you find the perfect fit. (Also see our earlier leads on great inexpensive and mid-range denim options.)

    “Everyone knows how hard it is to find the perfect pair of jeans. The right fit. The right color. The right price. The right attitude. Jeans are a mainstay of every woman’s wardrobe – good for dressing up and dressing down, good for first dates and anniversary dinners – and the right pair can make you feel like you own the world. But shopping for jeans can be a trying experience, particularly if you’re unsure of exactly what looks good, and particularly in the post-pregnancy period. Fortunately, help has arrived. in-jean-ius, located in Boston’s North End, offers a selection of brands, styles, and sizes broad enough to fit most tastes, and prices that recognize jeans as both the staple and the splurge that they are. Most importantly, in-jean-ius is staffed by women who know jeans, and know what will look good and feel good on the women who wear them. Working in a pretty, low-pressure boutique, the staff will patiently suggest pair after pair until the right one (or two) is finally found. Put you blue jeans on, girl, and rule the world.”

    in-jean-ius, 441 Hanover Street, Boston; Tel: 617-523-JEAN.

    Editor’s Note: Talk about karma. We learned yesterday from our friends at getsugar about this sale: “Between now and the end of August (or until the sale jeans run out), when you spend $200 at in-jean-ius, you will receive a free pair of sale jeans. So get in early to make sure you get the best selection!”

    Birthday Contest: Summerhouse Baking

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    I’m a huge fan of pretty, clutter-free consumable gifts (e.g., food, soaps), and you can’t go wrong with Summerhouse Baking’s divinely prepared cookie gifts (see our review). For today’s birthday contest, one lucky winner (US entrants welcome) will receive Summerhouse's 25-cookie gift sampler box. To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Tues., Aug. 21) the answer to the following question: What’s the name of Summerhouse’s current mouthwatering seasonal cookie?

    August 20, 2007

    Because You Care

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    I had the unusual opportunity of growing up in a three-generation household where, one by one, as circumstance dictated, my parents took in each of their parents (not to mention other periodic immigrating family members along the way). Most modern families, however, can’t sustain this arrangement, whether it’s due to logistical, emotional, or medical constraints. For this reason especially, I was extremely impressed when I learned about Care.com.

    Care.com coordinates thousands of care and service providers in more than 20 major cities across the US to provide families with choices for senior care (companions, in-home caregivers, respite care providers, hospice nurses, assisted living facilities, nursing homes), child care (sitters, nannies, au pairs), tutors (great for parents who barely made it through algebra themselves), and pet care (sitters, walkers, day cares, kennels). With a free, basic membership, families can search Care.com’s database and receive email alerts when new providers in the area join the network. Paid subscribers (rates are as low as $10 a month) are able to access caregiver contact information and references and request free background checks.

    While I love the multidimensional nature of Care.com's provider options, I have to admit that the topic of senior care in particular strikes a personal nerve. Said upbringing gave me an appreciation for the elder generation, as did my research years, during which I met and tested hundreds of kind and attentive elderly volunteers on speech perception experiments (ironically enough, sometimes they did better than their undergrad counterparts…). And the periodic medical crises that accompany families with longevity in the cards (Laurel has three grandparents and three great-grandparents) continues to remind me of the complex and diverse needs of the older generation. I just can’t help but wish that Care.com had been around a couple of years ago. Having dedicated so much life to taking care of his mother and in-laws, it breaks my heart that things moved so quickly, and we were so overwhelmed by the prospect of how to secure hospice care, that my father spent his final weeks in a hospital, not at home.

    Birthday Contest: Renee & Jeremy

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    If you love music but the household kid tunes are driving you bonkers, today’s birthday contest is for you. Three lucky winners (worldwide entrants welcome) will receive a copy of Renee & Jeremy’s soothing, great-for-kids-and-grownups It’s A Big World (see our review). To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Mon., Aug. 20) the answer to the following question: Amazingly, where did Renee and Jeremy record It’s A Big World?

    August 17, 2007

    Weekly Web Roundup

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    And now for our weekly dose of web highlights from some of our stylish blog partners:

    Cool Finds: One Chic Mama features an eco-friendly solution to make school lunches (and work lunches) a little more green. Classy Mommy’s latest favorite portable diaper changing pad is the Plush Pad by Ah Goo Baby. MomFinds is giving away the HP Presto Printing Mailbox, a printer that lets family members without computers or Internet access receive email updates and digital photos from loved ones.

    Cool Tips: Clever Parents offers guidance on teaching kids how to cope with the popularity game at school. Healthy Bump shares tips from nutritionist Christina E. Schmidt, owner of Baby Bistro Brands, offering special BBQ nutritional considerations to keep in mind while feasting outdoors.

    Boost From the Bottom

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    If your babe is old enough to sit at the dining table sans safety straps, check out this clever chair booster. Kaboost allows kids to sit in a real chair with the rest of the family via a boost from the bottom. The spring-loaded attachments fit most four-legged chairs and stay gripped when you lift the chair; otherwise, the chair stays put via rubberized feet. You can change the chair height depending on which direction you flip the attachment.

    Laurel has the groovy green Kaboost (shown; also available in chocolate and natural). Initially, I was concerned that even at the lower of the two height settings the chair would be too high for her to handle independently, but she was able to monkey right up, and the rubberized feet offered better stability for climbing up than the pre-existing felt padded feet. I can't guarantee this for everyone, but apparently Laurel was so comfortable up on her chair yesterday that she worked on art projects for a mind-blowing two hours.

    The Kaboost attachment is suitable for kids 20 months – 6 years. Technically, it’s portable in the sense that the legs fold down and it isn’t that heavy, but it doesn’t feature a wrap around strap/handle or tote and it isn’t the sort of item you would toss in a diaper bag. We’re just as happy to leave it securely attached at home where it gets plenty of use.

    Birthday Contest: Snanimals

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    If your kid tears through shoes anywhere near as fast as Laurel, today’s birthday contest is for you. One lucky winner (US & Canada entrants welcome) will choose a pair of hand painted sneakers or Mary Janes with a matching canvas tote from Snanimals. To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Fri., Aug. 17) the answer to the following question: In honor of their daughter Emma, to what organization does Snanimals donate 5% of their sales?

    August 16, 2007

    Reading and History for Children

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    We’re big fans of the amazing resources and services that public libraries offer (and if you're an avid library user, be sure to check out the independently run library elf service that reminds you to return your books...). Today, Kate shares information on another hidden treasure of Boston that no doubt will enhance your babe's love of books:

    "As a parent of small children, you may find that you spend more time at the library than you have since high school or college. Many public libraries offer not only well-loved collections of board books, picture books, toys, and puzzles, but also a wealth of programming for babies and kids. These activities - story hours, sing-alongs, puppet shows - can encourage little ones to become lifelong lovers of reading and users of libraries, while also providing important socializing opportunities. The city of Boston is fortunate to be home not only to the first public library in the United States but also to The Boston Athenaeum, a private library that offers a wonderfully welcoming environment to families and children. Located on historic Beacon Hill, the Athenaeum is a membership organization (the simple application process requires only references from friends or colleagues) that provides access both to one of the most interesting and important privately held book collections in the United States and to a delightful suite of rooms and reading spaces for children. With a dedicated staff of children's librarians, weekly reading events for children of various ages, and a richly-resourced children's collection, the Athenaeum is a hidden treasure for families who want to introduce their children to the magic of reading."

    Birthday Contest: Skimbaco

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    If you’re looking for cool back to school clothes, you’ll do well at Skimbaco. And for today’s birthday contest, this stylish outfitter will gift one lucky winner with a Riiminka cat, princess, or heart dress, and a second lucky winner with a Myself Belt. This contest is open to entrants worldwide and winners will pick from available styles and sizes. To enter to win, email us (by midnight EST tonight, Thursday, Aug. 16) the answer to the following question: Name another chic brand that Skimbaco carries (other than Riiminka and Myself Belts).

    August 15, 2007

    Parallel Work & Play

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    When it comes to organization, some folks are wed to digital solutions, some to paper, and some dabble in both. If you fi