Fall is coming, but that shouldn't stop you from trying to preserve visions of spring and summer indoors.

The handmade, hand-painted nylon Madame Butterflies ($12) from Land of Nod measure an impressive 22 x 10 inches and come in purple, pink, and green. Suspend these fluttery friends with the accompanying clear, 54” nylon hanging line.

Posted by Christine Koh on 31 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (1) | Filed in Decor & Furniture; Home
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As a music and brain scientist, the innateness of music appeared irrefutable when I saw my babe flap her arms to music (before she could walk), squat/bounce on her chubby haunches at her piano (during the cruising phase), and collectively rock out with her toddler friends at day care (think hoedown meets toddler mosh pit).

So why not keep feeding that natural creative spirit? Music Together offers music making programs for babes (infants – kindergarteners) and their caregivers. And it’s okay if you lost your musical mojo sometime en route to adulthood. The trained professionals will help you discover fun ways to be musical with your babe.

Use Music Together's class locator to check nationwide and international offerings. Among the many locations across Massachusetts, I've heard great things about Music Together of Cambridge & Brookline (also offering classes in Boston & Charlestown). In addition to your set of nine 45-minute classes ($195; sibling discount = $90; babes under 1 year old are free with registered sibling), fees include musical goodies (e.g., CDs, songbook, activities), a handbook on developmental music research, and, if desired, an assessment of your child’s music development.

Posted by Christine Koh on 31 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Indoors; Local
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I’m reposting information about the Movies for Moms series in West Newton, given that the cinema does not yet have a fixed schedule (i.e., the showings have been made possible by the efforts of one committed mama - thanks LL!).

Tomorrow’s (August 31) 11am showing is the critically acclaimed “Little Miss Sunshine.” Enjoy!

Posted by Christine Koh on 30 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Indoors; Home
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We’re lucky to be part of a generation of super involved and invested dads. “Peek! A Thai Hide-and-Seek” portrays a loving father/daughter relationship through imaginative writing and illustration within a lush, cultural context. Minfong Ho creates a catchy and playful rhyme scheme engaging a host of jungle creatures; Holly Meade’s watercolor and cut-paper collage work is a feast for eyes of all ages.

“Peek!” lists as appropriate for ages 4-8 but much younger babes will love listening to the rhyme scheme, naming the jungle animals, and finding the hiding toddler on each page.

Available at Amazon, regularly $16.99; currently on sale for $11.55.

Posted by Christine Koh on 30 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Books & Entertainment; For Babies & Kids
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Mamahood apparently comes without the warning label that potential side effects may include creative liberation and career change.

Case in point: Teri Dimalanta of giddygiddy, a self proclaimed “investment analyst turned craftaholic mom” (whose story is similar to my own). The giddygiddy collection features clips in the form of flowers (big and little blooms), food (fruits, veggies, and treats), and the cutest little animal collection you’ve ever seen (shown, “bow wow”; all clips are $8 each). And Teri’s clever styling goes beyond the "oohs!" and "aahs!" effect; the metal snap clip is sewn snuggly into the felt design to avoid snags, and stay put in fine baby hair.

Posted by Christine Koh on 29 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; For Little Ones
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What a pity that my food poisoning induced “labor” precluded use of our doula (the services of which were available gratis via participation in a doula study at our hospital). As first time parents, my husband and I loved the idea of having a childbirth expert in the room to take the pressure off of Jon, and keep our multi-paged (!) birthing plan on track.

Of course, the birthing plan and doula went out the window when I had my emergency C-section. So while I am unable to provide a personal reference, a dear mama friend from Cambridge – who searched long and hard for her doula – offers high praise for the following resource:

Wanda Blanckenberg (508-958-8437) was a calm and experienced presence throughout my 21 hours of labor, helping with everything from massage to relaxation breathing to deciding when to have an epidural to bolstering my husband when the contractions were slow. And when my spirits began to flag towards the end, hers was the encouraging voice that got me through to the birth of my beautiful baby daughter. In addition, she provides after-birth care with breastfeeding and other needs, all with the same calm serenity that makes her such an asset in the delivery room.”

My pal also recommends checking out DONA International’s list of questions to ask during birth and postpartum doula interviews; particularly taking care to find out the doula’s pain management philosophy right off the bat.

Posted by Christine Koh on 29 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Local; Pre & Postnatal Services; Pregnancy & Postpartum
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I’m writing on the heels of a local move that went impressively well, both logistically and toddler-istically; I thought I would pass on moving tips before the packing peanuts go to my head.

Logistical suggestions: 1) hire movers (once you have kids – and all of their gear – it’s time to stop hitting up your friends for moving help); 2) confirm your moving appointment (we would have been waiting around a long time had we not done this); 3) line up an extra set of hands to help with your kid(s) if you are moving on the weekend (Auntie Sha-Sha was a godsend on moving day); 4) ruthlessly prune your belongings; and 5) if possible, donate or sell items before or during your move. You’ll not be surprised by the correlation between discard rate and remaining packing time.

Kid-specific suggestions (they require more description and thus, separate paragraphs…):

1. Keep as many variables constant as possible. For example, if you’re thinking about weaning or potty training or transition to a big kid bed, wait until after the move. Set up your babe’s bedding and critical comfort objects as soon as you get to your new home. Keep to your basic routines as best you can.

2. With toddlers and older kids, talk up the move in advance (another mama pal related success with drawing pictures of the move process, e.g., big trucks, riding on airplanes). We had overlap between our leases so we took Laurel to the new home and let her run around, explore, and had her pick a few toys to place in her new room (she really liked this). During one of these visits she saw a broom on the porch and started pushing it around, saying “Laurel cleaning new home!”

3. We exercised the Pack n’ Play as a potential transition necessity. We set it up a couple nights before the move since we needed to break down the crib the day before the move, and in case the crib broke in transit or we weren’t able to get it set up in time for midday nap. It had been a long time since our babe used the PnP (and quite honestly, she’s a bit big for it…); when asked whether she would like to sleep in the “special camping crib” or the “plain crib” she took the bait. Never mind that she had to sleep on a diagonal to fit in it!

4. While maintenance of daily routines will help provide stability amidst the transition, appreciate that it’s a stressful time for everyone and your babe likely will need some extra TLC. Laurel has been a bit overwhelmed by the size of our new flat (“big home, little scared”) and not surprisingly sleeping time has been a little scary for her. Typically, Laurel falls asleep on her own after we leave her room, but during the first day in the new home she was clearly scared; she refused to take her midday nap (we ended up taking her out for a drive and she passed out immediately) and at bedtime I stayed with her until she fell asleep. Yesterday, after a full day of play in the new house, she was more comfortable; we still stayed longer than usual before nap and bedtime, but we were able to leave while she was still awake. She’s being a champ, but we’re rolling with things and bending our typical patterns when needed to help her adjust.

5. Make a stop to stock up on fruit and fluids. Moving tends to involve a lot of takeout; the novelty wears off in a hurry and you’ll find yourself craving clean flavors and rehydration.

6. If friends offer to have you over for dinner so you can escape the boxes, take them up on it (thanks Nic!).

7. Pick out a couple of new toys or books as housewarming gifts for your babe.

8. Settle what you can but feel OK about taking breaks from unpacking so you all can enjoy downtime in your new home.

Feel free to comment if you have moving tips to share!

Posted by Christine Koh on 28 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (1) | Filed in Development & Behavior; Home; Solutions
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Children’s décor options can be overwhelming; so why not keep the furniture and bedding simple and let your walls do the talking? Susannah Webster of Small Pond Murals is a local artist mama who creates custom murals for children’s rooms. Susannah’s murals manage to be both cheery and gentle, through use of vibrant yet soft color palettes, clean lines, and fanciful imagery.

Contact Susannah directly for a complimentary initial consultation.

Posted by Christine Koh on 28 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Decor & Furniture; Domestics; Home; Local
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I recently heard someone refer to Arlington as the new Cambridge. I won’t get into that argument in detail, but the fabulously yummy Za - minutes from the Cambridge/Arlington line - offers strong evidence for the case file.

Za followed the closing of Full Moon, the closing of which was a mystery given Full Moon’s seemingly steady stream of customers. Za has stepped up to the task, though, serving gourmet pizzas and salads that are suitable for both adults and kids. Kids will delight in the bright artwork and pig sculptures; the staff happily will fill up your sippy with milk, chocolate milk, or apple juice.

Za offers a regular menu (build your own and specialty pizzas, the latter of which change on occasion) as well as chalkboard specials that change more frequently and incorporate seasonal ingredients often garned from local farms. Za also recently made a smart move in developing a fine dessert menu.

The citrus infused beet, pea green, and goat cheese salad is spectacular, as is the Portobello mushroom (with roasted red pepper, caramelized onion, roasted garlic, and goat cheese) specialty pizza.

Za, 138 Mass. Ave., Arlington, Tel: 781-316-2334

Posted by Christine Koh on 27 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (1) | Filed in Food & Drink; Local
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Nothing says New England babe like a mini-version of your L.L.Bean barn jacket. The Adirondack Barn Coat is lined with flannel and constructed from soft, sandwashed canvas that feels broken-in from the start.

Machine wash and dry. Toddler sizes $29.50; kid sizes $39.50. Available in British Khaki (shown), Deepest Red, Sea Pink (toddlers only), and Bright Mariner (kids only).

Posted by Christine Koh on 26 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; For Little Ones
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A mama friend needs help! Her mother-in-law (MIL) appears to have a hang up about feeding her grandchildren unapproved and/or inappropriate food. Some data: 1) MIL fed my friend’s nephew his first solids (without his parents approval obviously), which resulted in a mild facial rash; 2) MIL tried to feed my friend’s daughter ice cream when she was an infant (luckily the parents were there to intervene); 3) MIL fed my friend’s daughter three new (i.e., not yet allergy tested) foods in one day, including meat, finger foods, and refined sugar products. The behavior persists despite repeated admonishments, conversations, interventions, instructions, and piles of prepared baby food.

At an emotional level, it is frustrating that MIL stole some major feeding milestones from these parents. MIL also doesn’t seem concerned about deviating from the food instructions provided, or the possibility of dealing with allergic reactions (or leaving it to the parents to deal with them). But MIL clearly loves her grandkids (she’s part of the weekly care routine) so what gives?

I was surprised to come up so short when researching this topic online. Other than a small section at BabyCenter on relative care (e.g., setting ground rules, payment), there is little in the way of professional resources in this domain. But the problem definitely exists, as evidenced by existing message boards at the baby, toddler, and preschool levels.

I could speculate on underlying power struggles or generational obsessions with feeding babies, but ultimately I think that the best you can do is have open conversations with your relative caregiver, provide detailed instructions, and pack plenty of baby food options. Beyond that, you have no control over the caregiver’s actions and thus need to focus on how to process your own reactions. You may find that over time (i.e., as the baby gets older and you have a better sense of what foods do and do not sit well) you’ll just care less about the specifics so long as the babe is getting nutricious offerings. But if you continue to find that the situation is a source of repeated stress and anger, it may be time to find an alternative caregiving arrangement.

Do you have thoughts to share on relative caregiving and food? Let us know what strategies you have used to cope.

Posted by Christine Koh on 25 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (8) | Filed in Childcare; Family Issues; Feeding & Nursing
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Our babe recently picked up a nasty little yeast rash along with what appeared to be Coxsackie virus. She was generally in very good spirits, with not much in the way of fever and just a few tiny blisters on her feet and hands, but her bum was looking pretty bad. After a couple of days of diaper treatment, combing my baby manual and the web, and consulting with a couple mama friends, I finally decided it was time to check in with the doctor.

For the most part, time, fluids, and Tylenol are the best treatments for Coxsackie; but our pediatrician did recommend a great tip for the yeast rash. Typical application of antifungal creams is limited to twice a day, thus shortening the time window that the cream can work away at the yeast rash. Our doctor suggested making a 50/50 mix of antifungal cream and diaper cream, thus allowing the antifungal cream to continually treat the yeast rash while still creating a protective barrier via the diaper cream.

Posted by Christine Koh on 24 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (1) | Filed in Diapers & Potty
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A new season is nearly upon us, a time made complicated by burning fashion desire + limited resources. A while back, my fabulous mama friend Paige hosted a terrific ladies’ event that perfectly suited said fashion desire + limited resources issue.

The event was a fashion swap, before which everyone weeded out their closets and laundered their fashionable, yet now tragically ill-fitting items. Wine and fondue accompanied the initial open browsing period; we then picked numbers out of a hat and, in order, went shopping. The only rules were that we only select one item per go around (so those later in the order had plenty to choose from), and that we tell the other ladies about our super cool find. It was a great way to relax with friends, refurbish wardrobes, and chat about the stories behind some of the clothes.

As it turned out, the event kept on giving. Even after everyone had shopped ‘til they dropped, there remained a pile of great clothing with lots of love and sass left in them. These items were donated to a local Goodwill.

Posted by Christine Koh on 24 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; For Mamas & Mamas-to-be
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Meanwhile, fear not, you can still check out all of our posts by scrolling down to the Archives section immediately below the Categories, or by using the search engine.

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Posted by Christine Koh on 23 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Web (Admin)
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What a happy mama I would be if I had limitless closets; I’m a huge fan of straightening via stowing to create simple, clean spaces.

Tame the clutter beast in style with The Container Store’s Large Floral Crunch Basket ($19.99; shown in pink; also available in blue floral, stripes, and solids). This collapsible basket is part of the Container Store’s laundry collection, but it’s also great for toys, storage, or anything else that needs a home. Measures 17 inches in diameter x 25 inches high.

Posted by Christine Koh on 23 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Decor & Furniture; Home; Solutions
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Sometimes housecleaning feels so onerous that you just need to vacate the premises. This Thursday (August 24) from 12 – 3pm, escape the mess but celebrate your good intentions by heading to the AMC/Loews Boston Common 19. Clorox is treating moms and kids to a free screening of Barnyard: The Original Party Animals. Before the flick, Dr. Kelly Reynolds, a mother of three with a PhD in microbiology, will share healthy home tips for busy moms, including information on how to manage the spread of surface germs that result in illness, and how to help limit exposure to home allergens. Clorox also will provide snacks and a goody bag full of their latest products; you'll be properly fueled and armed to tackle the mess back home.

You must RSVP (1-866-342-3115) to attend the screening. AMC/Loews Boston Common 19, 175 Tremont Street, Boston

Posted by Christine Koh on 22 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Indoors; Local
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Isn’t it ironic that as a nursing mama you spend so much time nourishing your babe that you barely have time to eat? Angel Milk offers a yummy supplement to the foods and vitamins you do manage to consume via their all-natural nutritional shake. Especially formulated for pregnant and nursing mamas, Angel Milk is fortified with vitamins A, B, C, D, E and K, folic acid, and blended with minerals like calcium, iron and magnesium. It’s also high in protein and low in sugar.

Although I’m neither pregnant nor nursing at the moment, I’m already a fan of Angel Milk. The texture and flavors (chocolate, strawberry, pina colada) are smooth, the subtle sweetness level is spot on, and it's a great, compact way to pack in nutrients.

Angel Milk is sold in 14 oz cans (14 servings, $19.99) or in individual packets (12 for $29.99). The company also offers an inexpensive starter kit ($9.99) that includes one individual packet of each of their flavors + the Angel Milk shaker cup (with liquid measurement markings and a cap for easy blending).

Angel Milk, Tel: 1-800-ANGEL76 or 310-547-1185

Posted by Christine Koh on 22 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Feeding & Nursing; Pregnancy & Postpartum
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As much as I love pedicures, sometimes a home remedy is all that you have time (and cash) for.

EO's Peppermint & Lavender Foot Scrub offers a marvelous means to treat the feet while waking the senses. Organic brown rice and natural clay exfoliate and draw out impurities; the peppermint and lavender essential oils result in a delicious olfactory pick me up.

Available at natural food stores and independent grocers such as Whole Foods, Wild Oats, Fresh Fields, Central Markets, Nature's Harvest and Bread & Circus. The EO website offers a resale store locator search by zip code.

Posted by Christine Koh on 21 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Bath, Beauty & Health
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Newton Community Education offers an impressive range of programming for little ones (ages 4 and up) and adults, including Soccer for Moms. Even if your babe hasn’t yet made it onto the playing field, you are welcome to join. Coaches from Viking Soccer provide the equipment, officiate games, and offer skill pointers to players of all levels. Bring a soccer ball, wear shin guards, and stay hydrated; cleats also are recommended.

From 8 – 9am on Saturdays starting September 16, 2006. You need not be a Newton resident to sign up.

Posted by Christine Koh on 21 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Beauty, Fitness & Wellness; Local
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What’s not to love about Global Girlfriend? This online fair trade boutique offers unique handmade items made by women's non-profit programs and cooperatives worldwide. Proceeds support a host of women’s organizations, including Rosie’s Place in Boston.

Global Girlfriend offers apparel and accessories, jewelry, gifts, and décor items. A great pick is the Bold Silk Cosmetic Bag in pink and orange ($12). Made from 100% silk, this bag is handmade by a Southern Indian fair trade group that provides sustainable employment, competitive wages, as well as free meals, health care and education for employees and their children.

Posted by Christine Koh on 20 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Decor & Furniture; Eco Living; Fashion; For Mamas & Mamas-to-be; Gifts & Paper; Home
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Our babe has always been a sensitive, empathetic little person. So it's no surprise that she's been a little nervous about recent changes in her world (e.g., teachers at her school moving on to other careers, older friends transitioning into new classrooms, our local move preparations). While I know that her periodic bouts of clinginess will resolve once life gets back to normal, I have been reminded of how difficult it was to cope with separation anxiety when it first cropped up during babyhood. If your babe is entering this phase, check out these resources from KidsHealth and BabyCenter; they offer description of how separation anxiety develops and strategies on how to cope.

Posted by Christine Koh on 19 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Development & Behavior
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Some might say that babes don’t earn their keep, what with their relentless consumption of Cheerios and diapers, but this week my peanut got me out of a traffic ticket. We were en route from day care and, eager to get home, I tried to catch the right turn light and basically ended up blowing through the red. As soon as I cleared the corner I got pulled over. Busted mommy.

Well, our babe loves emergency vehicles; she apparently couldn’t believe our good fortune that the flashing blues were right behind and for us. When the officer peered into the backseat Laurel said “policeman!” and offered him her red shovel (still in the car from our beach adventures last weekend). The officer asked about the shovel and Laurel proceeded to tell him about going to the beach, visiting Grandma and Grandpa, and the fact that there was too much water in the ocean. He was incredibly kind and patient in the face of all of this chatter.

I’d like to think that my clean driving record was my ticket to redemption, but really, the babe’s cuteness (documented here with her flower fingers) likely was the decisive factor in my only receiving a warning. I am truly grateful that the officer showed compassion towards the frazzled mom behind the wheel, and he still did his job even without issuing the ticket; I’ve been careful and law abiding ever since. Now I just have to figure out how to get the babe to stop saying, “Mommy ran the red light!”

Posted by Christine Koh on 18 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (1) | Filed in Development & Behavior; Travel
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I will save my seminar on music and innateness for another day. Meanwhile, consider taking a drive to Tanglewood in Lenox. At 3pm tomorrow (Saturday, August 19) members of the Boston Symphony Orchestra will perform The Tanglewood Family Concert, “Musical Storytelling: An Afternoon of Music, Stories & Drawing.” The program includes Tchaikovsky’s Children’s Album Op. 39, Saint-Saëns’ Carnival of the Animals, and Satie’s Sports & Divertissements. Kids are invited to bring their favorite stuffed animal, drawing pad, and crayons or markers. Tickets are $10 for adults; children 12 and under are free.

There are few places on earth like Tanglewood. What with the music, stories, and art framed within Tanglewood’s verdant, expansive backdrop, your family no doubt will be in for a whole brain experience.

Posted by Christine Koh on 18 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Outdoors; Local
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Believe in miracles. This week, our carb and fruit lovin’ toddler voraciously consumed vegetables by choice. On Monday she demanded and ate all of the mushrooms off of a pizza we ordered, on Tuesday she munched bell peppers from a quesadilla her dad made her (typically the veggies are picked out and discarded), and on Wednesday she kept requesting more zucchini (yes, green vegetables!) once she finished the pieces in her chili bowl. I'm intrigued to see whether the streak continues today.

It’s possible that this was a string of freak occurrences; or perhaps the babe’s recent weekend vacation diet of cheese sandwiches, blueberries, and Grandpa’s birthday cake finally got to her and she could feel the scurvy coming on. Whatever the reason, I’m chalking it up to more evidence for the case file that less is more when it comes to stressing out about kids and eating. The best you can do is keep putting the veggies and other nutritious stuff out there (and/or use camouflaging techniques...) and eventually they will come around.

Posted by Christine Koh on 17 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Feeding & Nursing
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Canada is a great place to be a mama. Everyone has access to health care, typical maternity leave is one year, and homegrown products and resources for babies and moms abound.

One of my Canadian mama pals from graduate school pointed me to a couple of especially cool companies. Milkface.com offers a cute array of nursing clothing (check out the comfy and stylish tops!), nursing supplies, and slings. The cloth diapering products from Motherease.com also get high marks. Designed by a seasoned mom who grew tired of the cumbersome and leaky workings of traditional cloth diapering systems, the patented Motherease design offers a snug and streamlined fit for excellent function and comfort.

Both companies ship to the US and internationally.

Posted by Christine Koh on 17 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Diapers & Potty; Fashion; Feeding & Nursing; For Mamas & Mamas-to-be
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I knew I was in trouble this past spring when the torrential rains hit and I was left to grovel at the hospital gift store for a plastic bag to protect my laptop.

Although that bag saved my laptop’s life, it left something to be desired functionally. I scoured the market for a protective, stylish laptop tote. I didn't want another black bag, but some of the funkier bags were either too pricey and/or huge. As in, so huge they were practically approaching flight speed on their own. I nearly caved and bought one of the pricier totes, but I decided that I didn't want to be wed to one bag for laptop carry.

I finally hit upon just the right solution. The Sumdex Padded Laptop Sleeve fits laptops 13” x 10” x 1” and is available for $17.99 at Ebags. The sleeve is compact and protective, and so long as my bag du jour is big enough, I can match my bag to outfit instead of vice versa.

Note: At Ebags, click on the “Will my laptop fit?” link in the Product Features section to check for your laptop model’s size compatability.

Posted by Christine Koh on 16 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; For Mamas & Mamas-to-be; Mama in the Workplace
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Since villages typically no longer raise children, parents often are faced with the guilt of their babe not recognizing beloved relatives and friends during visits and holidays. I picked up a great, easy idea from my sister in law to work on face recognition: a family and friends photo book.

For babies, just load up an inexpensive album with photos given that your little one first will be fascinated by looking at the faces, then likely will rip the pages once he/she learns how to pull the photos out (an entertaining game in itself...). For toddlers, you have an instant activity together: engage their help in picking out the album at the store; when you get home, have them choose which photos go in which slots. Ask them to decorate the book with stickers. Toddlers love helping out and you’ll be amazed by how quickly they pick up the names of loved ones.

For older kids, or as your own personal project, create a keepsake book. A cute album that won’t break the bank is the Studio K Stripes Dots Album (regularly $19.99, currently on sale for $14.99 at Joann.com). Acid and lignin free, this album includes 20 top-loading page protectors with white inserts to hold 40 layouts.

Posted by Christine Koh on 16 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Arts & Crafts; Home
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Nearly a year ago, the local art community lost a dear friend in Nathan Smith. Gentle, generous, and creative, Nathan was an independent artist and co-manager at the Paper Source in Cambridge.

Tomorrow, August 16th from 7 - 11pm, stop by the gallery show to benefit the Nathan Smith Foundation for the Visual Arts. “From the Ground Up” is open to the public and will feature the work of immensely talented local artists Heather Pilchard (oil, shown), Jason Arledge, and Laurie Mee.

At Vernon Street Studios, 6 Vernon Street, 2nd floor, Somerville.

Posted by Christine Koh on 15 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Local; Outreach
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Traveling with a babe isn’t exactly relaxing, but the right toys (and, if you are lucky, temperament) can make a trip enormously easier.

We just returned from a long weekend involving 8 hours roundtrip car/boat travel. We planned our timing carefully, scheduling the longest car leg over mid-day nap. Based on previous travel experiences, the options were: 1) use naptime to travel; 2) spend 2 hours twisted uncomfortably picking up dropped books and toys; or 3) try ineffectively to placate squirmy, screechy babe.

Our well-laid plans of course went out the window. In one direction we hit traffic that woke the babe up for the remainder of the drive; on the way back she didn’t sleep at all because she had fallen asleep during the earlier 45-minute ride to the ferry. We thought we were doomed, but: 1) the babe was in terrific spirits (i.e., she enjoyed babbling to herself and singing songs); and 2) we were armed with the Anatex Shape ‘n Color Coaster.

Anatex is famous for its wooden toys; the bead maze cubes at your pediatrician’s office are likely Anatex. The Shape ‘n Color Coaster couldn’t be simpler, but the wooden base, five pegs, and 50 slide-on pieces (five shapes and colors) offer a fun and compact way to learn about shapes, colors, counting, and grouping.

On the boat the babe enjoyed the toy in traditional format (i.e., base on table); in the car, we just gave her the flower shapes (her request, 10 pieces) and she spent all of her non-singing time making “flower fingers.”

Retails for $19.99; I got mine for an apparently accidental (mismarked) $9.99 at Whole Foods.

Posted by Christine Koh on 15 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Art Supplies & Toys; Travel
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I love anything monogrammed. Perhaps the identity permanence appeals to me, having grown up on hand me downs. In fact, when recently shopping for a new lunchbox for my babe, I only considered styles big enough to allow for monogramming. The L.L. Bean Super Lunch Box, Regular ($16) offers functionality and monogrammability. The main compartment is insulated to keep items cold; the outer pocket keeps crunchy snacks from getting crushed. The pack also includes a side mesh pocket and a front zippered pocket for extra storage.

Since I’m a scientist by training and have an independently minded toddler on my hands, I couldn’t resist conducting a little experiment (i.e., game for the babe). Sitting at the laptop with the babe on my lap, I used a two interval (color choice, e.g., red vs. blue) two alternative (pick the 1st or 2nd color) forced choice paradigm and asked the babe to choose between various color pairs. I accounted for order effects by repeating color choices in a pseudo-random order. The babe showed excellent response consistency for the foliage (shown) lunchbox. The lunchbox just arrived today and she loves it; she carried the pack all around the house declaring she was going on vacation.

If you happen to have an L.L. Bean credit card, order using your account login to get free monogramming and shipping.

Posted by Christine Koh on 14 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Feeding & Nursing; Gear
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A major wow factor of toddler development is the wide disparity between what toddlers comprehend and what they are able to communicate verbally. “I Like it When…” by Mary Murphy ($6.95 at Amazon) offers plenty of opportunities for little ones to show you just how much they know.

The little penguin likes holding hands, dancing, splashing about, and more with the older caretaking penguin. Your babe will delight in acting out the story; you will be blown away when you receive a kiss goodnight.

Posted by Christine Koh on 13 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Books & Entertainment; For Babies & Kids
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I must be hungry. I have written a lot about food lately. Thing is, as much as I love cooking and baking, I also love getting served.

It’s time to start plotting out your babysitters. Boston Restaurant Week (weeks, really) is coming up, August 13 – 18 and August 20 – 25 (excluding Sundays, where noted). Three-course, prix fixe menus are $20.06 (lunch) and $30.06 (dinner) per person, excluding beverages, tax, and tip.

To see the list of participating restaurants and make reservations, check out OpenTable.com.

Posted by Christine Koh on 12 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Food & Drink; Local
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The creative people I know and love inspire me every day; so you’ll understand my massive disappointment that I won’t be able to see my super talented friend David Smith play with his band Burnt Sugar this weekend.

If you are into jazz/funk, book a sitter for Saturday night (August 12); the critically acclaimed group is playing for the first time in the Boston area. Burnt Sugar plays at The Lizard Lounge (1667 Mass Ave, under the Cambridge Common restaurant, Cambridge) at 9:30pm; cover is $10.

Posted by Christine Koh on 11 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Indoors; Local
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Now I wouldn’t know this firsthand, but apparently it’s tough out there for well-endowed nursing mamas. How do you find something supportive and functional that doesn’t create an evil uniboob?

Luckily, one of my gloriously endowed mama friends (I’ll leave her nameless to protect her privacy) has sussed out the market and passed on this tip. The Cotton Softcup Nursing Bra In Nude from Mimi Maternity fits the bill. Machine washable, this comfy cotton blend bra features no underwire (minimizing risk of mastitis), and construction that leads to “two well-shaped boobs” (that’s a quote from my mama pal, not Mimi). And as far as nursing bras go, the Mimi bra is a steal at $29.50 (available in sizes B-E).

Posted by Christine Koh on 11 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; Feeding & Nursing; For Mamas & Mamas-to-be
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For an outing equally enriching for both parents and babes, head to Barefoot Books in Cambridge, where the wide array of books, toys, artwork, and magical spaces are imbued with rich artistry and mindful, creative storytelling for all ages. Books for younger babes offer the opportunity to learn about colors, numbers, and objects in smooth, soothing color palettes; books for older kids frame entertaining stories in the context of embracing diversity and culture, multigenerational bonds, and the value of creativity. The approach to storytelling is multimodal: many books include story CDs and offer an accompanying line of music CDs, artwork, and toys; the Folkmanis Puppet Line ($9.99-$21.99) allows kids to continue storytelling, even after you are done reading the words on the page.

Founded by two mamas who started their business out of home so they could continue to be close to their children, Barefoot Books is keen on helping other parents across the globe do the same. Their Barefoot Stallholder program provides support to develop home-based businesses; they also offer the opportunity to earn money and free products by hosting Barefoot Parties.

Check out their current schedule for free events and promotions; you’ll want to make a habit of stopping in for story hour, currently Fridays and Saturdays at 10:30am.

Barefoot Books, 1771 Massachusetts Avenue, Cambridge, Tel: 617-349-1610

Posted by Christine Koh on 10 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Books & Entertainment; For Babies & Kids; Fun Indoors; Local; Retail
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Baby showers typically leave you with stacks of onesies, but the clever and stylish designs from Lotus Children are sure to rise to the top of your pile. Founded by a mama in search of comfy, appropriate clothing for her little yogi, Lotus Children offers a series of om-worthy designs across their collections for babies (“Omsie” shown in Upward Dog - $22, pants, t-suits) and toddlers (short and long sleeve t-shirts, pants up to size 6).

Posted by Christine Koh on 10 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; For Little Ones
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Pursuant to a recent post on dining out with babes, I’m writing fresh on the heels of dinner out with the babe. It was time to give her another chance. We hit Tu Y Yo in Somerville where the staff is friendly and courteous and our waitress was especially kind. When I ordered a glass of milk for the babe and was fumbling around for the sippy cup, the waitress offered to fill the cup up directly. When she returned, it was clear – from the warmth of the cup and the lack of peanut butter stains – that she had washed out the sippy cup before filling it up. I truly was touched.

The food at Tu Y Yo is terrific; I just wish I had had a chance to really enjoy it. In reality, the babe was super; she sat in the booster seat for about 15-20 minutes entertaining herself with a saltshaker. In retrospect, we probably should have used this time to walk her around and saved the saltshaker for dinner time. When the food arrived, she picked a little, but otherwise was ready to be up and toddling around. We spent the next 15 minutes trying to wolf down our food, entertain her, and keep her from petting the man sitting behind us.

While obviously it is possible to eat out with kids (and a good thing to have them experience), it just isn’t that relaxing if you’re really into food. My husband and I love talking about food, being mindful of flavors, and thinking about recipes; it’s tough to do that with a little one to entertain. The other issue is that we tend to be overconsiderate; anytime the babe was just being a toddler (e.g., loudly exclaiming "no!" for no reason, trying to pet the man behind us, banging on the table) we got ramped up with worry about other people in the restaurant. The reality was probably that no one cared, and for every typical "negative" toddler moment, we had a really sweet one: for example, when she kept saying "thank you!" and waving to the waitress after the milk cup delivery.

I should say that the food at Tu Y Yo is terrific: authentic, flavorful, and colorfully balanced. We plan to visit again soon, likely on date night so we can deal with our foodie, overconsiderate hangups without faulting the babe.

Posted by Christine Koh on 9 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Feeding & Nursing; Food & Drink; Local
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A Danish friend who conducts African safaris once told me that hippos are “mean bastards.”

Well, you’d never know it by looking at the cheery Modern Basics Big Boo Hippo Throw Blanket ($40). I just discovered the unbelievably cool site of Design Public, a small team that creates the coolest in home furnishings and accessories for babies, kids, adults, and critters.

The hippo blanket is available in blue, brown, green or pink; the fleece throw measures 40 x 30 inches.

Posted by Christine Koh on 9 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Decor & Furniture; Home
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Is the intensity of the preschool rat race getting you down? You likely will find validation in “Einstein Never Used Flashcards” (2003). Referred to me by developmental psychologist Dr. Derek Price, “Einstein” is written by infancy research specialists Golinkoff, Hirsh-Pasek, and Ever. The authors are critical of the current trend to drive little ones hard and early, and discuss empirical evidence suggesting that pushing preschoolers through achievement programs doesn’t pay off in the long run. The authors instead advocate learning through everyday play, which naturally enhances problem solving skills, attention span, social development, and creativity.

Available at Amazon, regularly $13.95; currently on sale for $10.74.

Posted by Christine Koh on 8 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Books & Entertainment; For Grownups
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A mama from Newton has taken the initiative to connect with the West Newton Cinema to periodically show movies for parents and their babies. At the moment, the "Movies for Moms" series is informal (currently about every 3 weeks, but possibly moving to a twice monthly schedule); the next showing is “A Prairie Home Companion” on Thursday, August 10th at 11am. The event is open to all; bring a friend and show your support for this growing program!

West Newton Cinema, 1296 Washington Street, West Newton, Tel: 617-964-8074.

Posted by Christine Koh on 8 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Indoors; Local
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Every now and then my husband does something in the kitchen that makes me go berserk. Two weeks ago it was coming up with a recipe for the best broccoli salad ever.

Inspired by a so-so version at a café near work, and the need for us to get some vegetables in us, Jon developed this recipe and can produce it in 20-25 minutes flat. The stovetop cooking is minimal, which is key given this summer’s steamy heat.

I now ask Jon to double the batches; single batches don’t last long around our house. Even the toddle bug will ingest some of the vegetables due to the yummy “sauce!”

Posted by Christine Koh on 7 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Home; Recipes
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I wish I had known about Eva Lillian last summer. We were off to a wedding and I was so excited to wear the stylish little dress that had been hanging with tags in my closet (purchased just before discovering I was pregnant) that I completely neglected how nursing un-friendly the dress was.

The wedding was at the home of the parents of the bride (who I didn’t know well at the time); there was no hotel room to retreat to and I didn’t feel comfortable asking to use the upstairs quarters. So I hunkered down in the living room in a wing chair and tried my best to be discreet while essentially sitting their topless, stylish dress aflutter. The babe, who was having a grand old time at the party, wasn’t the most cooperative partner. She kept pulling off and looking around, completely leaving me hanging.

Eva Lillian, a maternity and nursing boutique, offers the Sexy & Sophisticated Nursing Dress ($89; shown in teal), a nursing dress that creates a shapely silhouette while hiding the parts of your shape you’d rather leave private. In black or teal up to size 18 and machine washable, the comfy factor of this dress also makes it suitable for pregnancy and transition.

Posted by Christine Koh on 7 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; Feeding & Nursing; For Mamas & Mamas-to-be
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Jack would’ve loved to check out Magic Beans in Brookline. The store is replete with a terrific selection of the latest cool toys and baby gear; friendly staff is available to help you test drive (and figure out how to fold and unfold) any of their impressive selection of high-end strollers. The store also offers a sizeable play area for babes.

Magic Beans, 312 Harvard Street, Brookline, 617-264-2326

Posted by Christine Koh on 6 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Local; Retail
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I’m thinking it’s not an accident that my husband and I haven’t taken our babe to a real sit down restaurant for what feels like several months, ever since a particularly crummy dining experience in Cambridge. Normally the babe does fine in restaurants, but on that particular day she was downright squirrelly. The toys I brought were, like, so 10 minutes ago, and none of the food interested her. She even thought the quesadilla we ordered for her was too cheesy (and that’s saying something…). There weren’t any interesting distractions in the restaurant so we ended up firing our food back and packing it in quickly. We were totally grumpy.

But really, I’m not trying to scare you off. We've had plenty of other easy dining out experiences with the babe! If you’re feeling adventurous this weekend, Meg Muckenhoupt’s Globe feature (July 5, 2006) suggests some Boston area restaurants that offer real food for the adults while satisfying the little ones. The selected restaurants suit kids well by virtue of serving food that caters to little fingers and autonomy (e.g., selecting dim sum), or offering space to wander around (supervised, of course).

Posted by Christine Koh on 5 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Food & Drink; Local
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Looking for a way to connect with other mamas in your community or nationwide? Check out Mothers & More, an impressive nationwide network of local chapters that offers support for mamas in all stages of transition into and through motherhood.

Chapters exist nationwide (and membership is open internationally); in Massachusetts the Assabet Valley, Framingham area, Merrimack Valley, Metro West, and Pioneer Valley chapters have websites. Active chapters without websites include North Shore and Westford. For all chapters, you can request information by email. The yearly US membership fee either is $45 or $55 (the latter includes subscription to a magazine); the yearly international fee is $55.

Posted by Christine Koh on 5 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Local; Outreach
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The perfectionist in me was completely distraught when, a few years back, we moved into a new apartment that had a ceramic kitchen sink and I immediately chipped several dishes. I burned countless unsuccessful hours trying to track down replacements; eventually, I had to give up on the idea of having a full set of that particular blue shade of plate.

You’ll never have to worry about perfect matches with these vivid mix and match Two Tone Tea Cups ($64) from Uncommon Goods. The set includes six eyepopping 8 oz cups and saucers (6” diameter, dishwasher and microwave safe); the varied color palette will allow you the flexibility to integrate other "misfit" dishware (numbers of which likely will increase with a babe around...) as if you planned it all along.

Posted by Christine Koh on 4 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Gifts & Paper; Home
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Mamas are awfully hard on themselves, especially when it comes to nursing. In my opinion, any effort you put towards breastfeeding (even if nursing doesn't ultimately work out for you) is terrific. So go ahead and celebrate the number of days, months, or years that you have committed to breastfeeding.

While World Breastfeeding Week celebrations are ongoing through May – September, this week (August 1 – 7) celebrates the signing of the Innocenti Declaration on the Protection, Promotion and Support of Breastfeeding. This year marks the 25th anniversary of an international public health recommendation to provide mothers with facts about feeding their babies, free of aggressive infant formula marketing campaigns (e.g., hospital formula freebies).

Posted by Christine Koh on 4 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Feeding & Nursing
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The early days of new parenting can be terrifying so why go it alone? Meet up at Stella Bella Toys for the New Parent Coffee Hour, Fridays from 10:30 – 11:30am. The event is free of charge, you can engage with other adults, and the store is teeming with super cool toys for your little one. I love Stella Bella for carrying Corolle’s ethnically diverse baby doll collection.

A website is forthcoming; meanwhile, call to confirm summer scheduling. Among their offerings are playgroups for babies (Tuesday, 10 – 11am; free) and toddlers (Wednesday, 4 – 5pm; $5), and sing along time (Saturday 11am – noon, free).

Stella Bella Toys, 1360 Cambridge Street, Cambridge (Inman Square), Tel: 617-491-6290

Posted by Christine Koh on 4 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Indoors; Local; Retail
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Isn’t it marvelous to find luxurious body products for a pittance? I’m a big fan of Aveeno products in general, but their Positively Smooth Shave Gel is a real winner. Creamy and effective, the shaving gel contains natural soy and rich emollients that lead to fabulously smooth legs. Available at drugstores.

Posted by Christine Koh on 3 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Bath, Beauty & Health
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Just because the books in your current library have a high illustration to text ratio doesn’t mean you aren’t ready for a literary challenge.

David McPhail’s “Pigs Aplenty, Pigs Galore” ($6.99 at Amazon) was a gift from a dear friend (long before the babe was around!) and is – without question – one of our favorite books. The illustrations bring character and expression to each and every pig; the text offers a clever rhyme scheme that will hold your babe’s attention while offering your brain some mental gymnastics to get the wording right on memorization.

Posted by Christine Koh on 3 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Books & Entertainment; For Babies & Kids
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I love how diverse the baking experience can be. And while I'm often drawn towards lunatic baking challenges (I made a three-tiered wedding cake for my babe’s first birthday party…), sometimes nothing beats a spectacular, quick recipe.

Last year I came across just such a recipe for cupcakes. From the famous Magnolia’s in NYC, these cupcakes are a breeze to make and have served as impressive centerpieces at baby showers and birthday parties. The moist cake is coupled with rich, decadent icing that renders these treats far from ordinary. This recipe is simple enough to make for a fun baking project with kids; or it’s even possible to measure and mix while toting a curious toddler on your hip.

Posted by Christine Koh on 3 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Home; Recipes
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When situations seem particularly unjust, I drop my pleasant, accommodating demeanor and get ready to rumble. This is what happened 2 years ago when I learned that, as a federally funded research fellow (i.e., I brought in my own salary via an award from the NIH), I was not considered eligible for the same maternity leave benefits (i.e., 8 paid weeks of leave) as other hospital staff members. When I first looked into the leave issue, I was told that yes, I would get 8 weeks leave (the NIH and the hospital each would cover 4 weeks). Later I was told that my original information was incorrect; that research fellows only receive 4 weeks paid leave (meaning, NIH paid 4 weeks, the hospital paid nothing).

This rule added insult to injury on several counts. First, in general, 4-8 weeks of paid leave seems pretty stingy compared to leave benefits in other countries (for examples click here). Second, research fellows are overworked and underpaid as is (believe me, it’s bad). Third, the hospital doesn’t even pay the salaries of federally funded fellows + they require an exorbitant 79% above a fellow's total award for overhead fees -- yet they appeared to be shirking out of contributing 4 measly weeks of pay in accordance with typical staff benefits?

For me, it was more the principle of the matter than the month's salary. So I kept needling my grant manager and HR contact for a better explanation. When there was none, I decided that the best I could do was send a letter to the higher ups. I didn’t expect the situation to be resolved by the time I went on leave but I felt that I needed to at least put future female fellows on the radar. I got my girl power mojo workin’, as it were.

I asked my HR contact for an address, explaining my intentions. A day later I received an email message indicating that at a recent meeting it was decided to allow research fellows to be paid for 8 weeks leave just as attending physicians were. Incorrect information or policy change? Either way, more evidence that it never hurts to push back.

Posted by Christine Koh on 2 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Mama in the Workplace
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With the right nursing top, you almost can feel as if you are leading a typical, clothed life.

I recently revisited the topic of nursing bras with a friend (who is deep in the throes of nursing for the second time) for a soon-to-be mama pal on the North Shore. Nursing tanks/camisoles are a fabulous, versatile solution. They are great for day (e.g., under cute cardigan or button down to feign appearance of put together new mama), night (i.e., because you’re too tired to change into jammies), and nursing in public (i.e., your sides aren’t exposed as they would be if you had to lift your shirt to get to a nursing bra).

Go with a tank/camisole where the front fabric piece unsnaps and folds down similar to a typical nursing bra (vs. the tanks where you essentially just pull down the top and are completely exposed across the upper chest). The nursing tanks at Target are a steal for around $13.

If you are willing to splurge, Bravado has a new nursing tank with super cute styling (shown above). The Bravado Essential Nursing Bra Tank ($47 at BabyCenter) has said snap/hooks in front, shirring at the chest, and flare at the waist to avoid feeling constrained. It’s available in white, sky blue, and black (I prefer black to hide leaks and stains).

Posted by Christine Koh on 2 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fashion; Feeding & Nursing; For Mamas & Mamas-to-be
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One of the great things about my husband doing the grocery shopping is that he never fails to return with surprise snacks. The latest winner: Mother’s Peanut Butter Bumpers.

With a crunch reminiscent of your old friend the Cap’n – but without any of the hydrogenated oils – these all natural, nubbly, size-variant bumpers are perfect for little fingers and irresistible to adults. Check your local grocery store for availability.

Posted by Christine Koh on 2 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (1) | Filed in Feeding & Nursing
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For a peaceful retreat alone or with your little adventurer, head to the Massachusetts Audubon Habitat Education Center and Wildlife Sanctuary in Belmont. Habitat offers over 2.5 miles of light trails through deciduous and evergreen forests, across meadows, around 2 ponds, and along a wetland containing a vernal pool. You’ll quickly forget that you are just 6 miles out from downtown Boston.

The visitor center holds regular art exhibits, and offers a nature center, garden terrace, and restrooms. Habitat also offers a number of 5 to 10 day summer camp programs (for children ages 4.5 – 14). Call to check on availability for the mid-late August programs.

Trails are open every day from dawn to dusk. The visitor center is open Monday through Friday, 8am to 4pm, Saturday 10am to 4pm. Admission is $4 for nonmember adults; $3 for nonmember children (3-12) and seniors.

Habitat, 10 Juniper Road, Belmont, Tel: 617-489-5050

Posted by Christine Koh on 1 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Fun Outdoors; Local
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So how bad is it that my academic expertise is in music and psychology and I have never explicitly purchased a CD for my babe?

Yes, of course I believe that music has powerful cognitive and therapeutic capabilities. But aside from having a decent existing music collection to choose from, I tend to be utterly underwhelmed by the bubble gum bouncy covers on CDs marketed for parents, and especially exasperated by printed claims such as “Proven to make your baby smarter!” Really? Who proved it? Cite a reference please.

Marketing griping aside, I do have one immediate recommendation. My brother-in-law gave us a wonderful CD by Nina Gerber, a professional guitarist based in California. Nina’s “Sweet Dreams” album ($15) includes acoustic guitar instrumentals that are lyrical and textured, yet calming for both babes and adults. This album occupied a permanent spot in our CD changer for about 18 months, serving as our evening wind down/sleep signal music.

Only available for via mail order, but I think it's worth it.

Posted by Christine Koh on 1 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Books & Entertainment; For Babies & Kids; Sleep
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A mama pal from Halifax, Nova Scotia writes in about a fabulous product she picked up for her potty training son. The Piddle Pad from Kiddopotamus is a lifesaver in the car. The top side is soft terrycloth; the backing is vinyl to protect the seat and seatbelts from accidents. With one (or more) of these on hand you won’t be stuck with a babe in a soggy seat, and the major nuisance of wrestling off the car seat cover and running laundry as soon as you get home.

The Piddle Pad is machine washable (of course!) and available for $7.99 at Babies R Us or $8.99 at Amazon.

Posted by Christine Koh on 1 Aug 2006 | Permalink | Comments (0) | Filed in Diapers & Potty; Gear
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